I felt so validated by this- even though I’m constantly told by well meaning friends that my ‘mourning’ period is over and I should get a move on. Your piece brought alive a lot of the feelings I still harbour.

You might enjoy this piece below on something similar…

“ Maybe the reason I still remember your phone number, is that just knowing that these ten digits can lead to your voice is my bitter sweet reward. Maybe one day, when my patience gives in, I’ll dial them and say your name. I don’t know for sure.”

The Sand from the Beach