Wow..amazingly difficult to accept and understand as a concept, and you’ve highlighted the issue beautifully.

Wonderfully done.

I second a lot of what you wrote, in that insecurity of one person, once it is seen, brings a different dynamic to the relationship. One that the the relationship is not always ready to handle.

I was going through something similar when i wrote http://bit.ly/AnxiousGirlFriend

Would be great to hear your take on it.